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Some of the more typical questions sufferers are likely to ask can include those in the following two groupings: For those who obsess about not knowing what their identity is: How do I know whether I prefer women or men? Using this technique you work with a therapist to expose yourself to gradually increasing levels of anxiety-provoking situations and thoughts.
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There's also gains - love, acceptance, no more hiding. I have no true friends but acquaintances. You'll be freer to find that which I suspect you really crave - and that is an authentic loving relationship where you can be you without disguise.
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